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Muslims Are Testy

Well, well, well….seems that I’ve upset a little Muslim chick and she tried to get me to censor myself, then she was rude and hateful, then she attempted to convert me. She has been informed that her name WILL be used and has given her permission. There are some French portions of the exchange so I will post translations (courtesy of Google Translate) of those underneath each portion.

Let’s get started with this little episode starting back on June 30, 2012:
Kaoutar Zahraoui: Je n’ai pas vraiment aimé ce commentaire. J’aimerais qu’il soit supprimé.
(I have not really liked this comment. I would like it removed.)

The comment:
Jenna Smith (June 30, 2012): Oh….here’s a question for you to think about……if your god is so great, why does he need humans to do his work for him? Why would an all-powerful, all-knowing creator of the universe need weak, frail, fallible humans to do ANYTHING for him? The whole idea of your god falls apart with the least little scrutiny. How is that real? Real things stand up to questions and scrutiny…..imaginary things fall apart.

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Kaoutar Zahrouhi: Je n’ai pas vraiment aimé ce commentaire. J’aimerais qu’il soit supprimé.
(I have not really liked this comment. I would like it removed.)

The comment:
Jenna Smith (June 30, 2012): Honey, if you wish to believe lies, then don’t be surprised when someone uses them to control you. And they already do. Your god does not DO anything. He doesn’t even give you comfort! YOU DO THAT. As for me, I have plenty of things to believe in……humanity, the earth, love, laughter, the inrinsic goodness of people…..LOTS of things that don’t require me to swallow lies, repeat lies or believe lies. BTW, if you don’t want people to comment on a post, don’t make the post.

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Kaoutar Zahraoui: Je n’ai pas vraiment aimé ce commentaire. J’aimerais qu’il soit supprimé.
(I have not really liked this comment. I would like it removed.)

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Jenna Smith (June 30, 2012): Oh, and that propaganda spread by Muslim religious leaders about learned people becoming Muslim is pure lies. NAME THEM if they are so apparent and prominent. If you’re going to make such claims, you have to back them up! You have blindly accepted these stories without doing the research yourself.I HAVE done the research…..and that is why I KNOW that the god of Ibrahim is a myth.

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Jenna Smith: Je ne suis pas enlever tout de mes commentaires. Vous n’avez pas à les aimer.
(I will not remove any of my comments. You do not have to like them.)
Kaoutar Zahraoui: GO TO HELL 😀 (Yeah, she added a smiley.)

Jenna Smith: Le fait demeure que si l’islam était si parfait, il pourrait résister à toute quantité de questionnement et de contrôle ….. mais il ne fonctionne pas. Avec un peu de la pensée au petit il est détruit et se sont révélés la doctrine fondée sur la peur d’un seigneur de la guerre mesquine qu’il est. Il n’est pas divin ou sacré. C’est juste une façon de contrôler les masses par la peur et la haine.
(The fact remains that if Islam was so perfect, it could withstand any amount of questioning….. but it does not work. With a little thought it is destroyed and found to be a doctrine based on fear of a petty warlord. It is not divine or sacred. It’s just a way to control the masses through fear and hatred.)

Jenna Smith: “GO TO HELL”? Is that the peaceful premise of Islam you love to tout?
There is no hell. Your god is not real. Don’t use it for a reason to be hateful and mean……as you so obviously are.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I do not think you have a mind because I do not see it … I see only “effect” of your mind, that is, that by your intelligence you can speak coherently or solve a problem, but anyway, I do not see his intelligence. Do I need a hole in his head to find it? …

We do not see God, but that’s not to say that He does not exist, everything around us is proof of the existence of God. (Any act requires an author, then a fortiori the universe needs a creator).

Kaoutar Zahraoui: You’re sick honney 🙂 you have no source of life! I pity you

Jenna Smith: Don’t make personal jabs….you won’t help your case. I have not said ANYTHING rude or personal.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: You’ll never succeed me change my mind and belief that Allah is unique and there! So do not break your head;)

Jenna Smith: You should ask yourself then…..why does god not smite me dead? If I am so offensive to your god, why does he not kill me?

Kaoutar Zahraoui: i will tell you why ! wait

Jenna Smith: The universe has been proved to have created itself.
I’m not trying to change your mind……I didn’t address you at ALL. I addressed Rihab.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: You adresse all the musilman ! WE ARE UNITED 🙂

Jenna Smith: I know why I won’t change your mind….you are too scared to see the truth….there are billions of others just like you. It’s sad, really, that you’re so fearful of death that you waste your life worshipping something that does not exist.
Oh…..all Muslims are united, huh? Does that mean you’re a terrorist?

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Okeey ! prove me that you existe JENNA 😉
Prove me that ur really alive
prove me that is YOU and no one else 😉

Jenna Smith: Don’t be silly or rude.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: no im NOT !
im treating the subject such you do 😉

Jenna Smith: The fact remains that if your religions was right ad true, no amount of questioning would shake it…..and you wouldn’t be getting so mad right now.
No, I’m talking about ISLAM….you’re talking about ME.
If you’re not going to be polite, go talk to someone else.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Noo ! i’m talking about the fact you can prove the existence of something 😉

Jenna Smith: You are mad because deep down inside your heart, you know I am correct. Otherwise, you would have no reason to be mad.
You’re being silly, Kaoutar.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: What is your religion?

Jenna Smith: Try this…..have your god, if he is so real and powerful, reveal himself to me.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Who’s your god ?

Jenna Smith: I don’t have a god.

Jenna Smith: Now, back to the subject…..if your god is real, have him prove it.
Surely he can do one tiny thing like that!

Jenna Smith: OR….have your god kill me….whichever you prefer……have your god show himself or kill me….your choice. I’ll give him until tomorrow morning to do one or the other.
24 hours……surely that’s enough time for the creator of the universe to show me himself or kill me.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: (I’m not going to bother to translate the Arabic.)لا حول و لا قوة إلا بالله

Jenna Smith: I speak 3 languages….Arabic is not one of them.
Now…..unless you can get your omnipotent deity to DO something that proves himself to ME….I shall continue to KNOW that it’s just a myth and challenge the idea that he is real anytime I wish.
Have a lovely day! Enjoy the gifts that NATURE has provided.
And I’m not removing any comments! MWAH!!!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: My ALLAH is tolerable, he knows it’s out of you and that you are ignorant that’s why you say that! I love my god and I believe in him! thank you god because I have this advantage that you did not you! my god I know when I read his book the Quoran I am so impressed with the sacred words that is in it! when I pray I feel that I can see it at any time with me to help me! I just feel calm and quiet and I have no problems in my religious life to know that I’m in the right way!
I will not answer you because you speak in a way ugly and sorry for the expression but you do not respect! you persist! you do not wanna know! if you’re really curious and want to know our religion, seeks! looking good! looking in the right direction, and I am sure and certain that you will be convinced!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Check this out si t’en es vraiment interessée à savoiif you’re really interested in) r ( Jenna 😉
La page de l’islam – Dieu existe-t-il ?…
pour connaître, apprendre, comprendre l’Islam… simplement… sereinement….(to know, learn, understand Islam … just … serenely)

Jenna Smith: If your god is so tolerable….then why does he allow children to die?
I’ve studied Islam. It is no different than Christianity.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Then you havent :p

Jenna Smith: I don’t speak French.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: or you’ve studied on the bad way
Okeei i’m gonna translate what is written in 🙂

Jenna Smith: That is the EXACT SAME thing Christians say when you don’t accept their mythology too!

Jenna Smith
Don’t bother. I don’t need it.

I see what Islam produces….
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Kaoutar Zahraoui: then it deppens on you ! if you really want to know the right islam you wont care about what the other sayes 😉 you will be WISE !

Jenna Smith: Your religion is a myth.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Okeey 🙂 ! that’s ur point of view

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Please read this well 😉 :

Question: How can you prove that God exists, not through faith.
Answer: The Evidence for the existence of God, even for those who are not believers, are so numerous that we could not identify all. Indeed, each element of the universe, the infinitely large to the infinitely small, is proof of the existence of a Creator. However, we could name three who are ample rational arguments to prove God’s existence to anyone seeking the truth with complete objectivity.
The first sign that attests to the existence of a Creator lies in the sublime order and the flawless organization that governs the universe and protects just the chaos. From the information that we currently have on the solar system, we learn for example that only needs a change of some parameters for cosmic life on earth is not possible. Is it the “Chance” and that has positioned our planet from the sun and moon in relation to it, knowing that a different position would have made our beautiful “blue planet” a chaotic place, unable to accommodate any form of life? It’s the same molecular structure. Small differences in distance between the components of the atom would suffice again to annihilate all living existence. The question again is whether chance alone can explain this order and precision …??? In my opinion, believe that chance and natural organization are the only factors in this situation is the “feat” intellectual.
The second sign that proves the existence of God is the great complexity that characterizes all living organisms: human, animal or plant. Just to be sure to refer again to the information provided by researchers and scientists on the issue.
Another sign of the existence of God: The great diversity found in the form of creatures, yet are all composed of the same basic elements. Can we again take seriously that chance alone could produce such diversity?
However, it is quite surprising that the new discoveries in science have resulted in many researchers away from the recognition of the Creator. It seems that their powers of deduction and perception are too blinded by the clarity of the signs of the presence of the Supreme Being, as too much light blinds the human eye and prevents discern what s offer to him. Furthermore, it is interesting to note that scientific progress, far away from the faith, only serves to confirm that. In other words, one who is convinced of the existence of God sees the fruits of modern discoveries as elements of the overall process established by God for the organization of the universe. The origin of this process, the only Master is of course the Almighty. Those who deny the existence of a creative entity and attribute to Nature only the existence and evolution of the elements of the universe actually focus their attention on the process driver, blinded by the Supreme Force which was originally and is
responsible for its proper operation. It is quite absurd to claim that science alone explains everything. Actually, she just enlighten ourselves about the “how” of things, but it is silent on the origin and the “why” of these things. Where does such distinctive signs present in every human being, as his fingerprints? … its genetic signature? … Why each of these brands is it unique to each individual? Or, from which consciousness and the human psyche? What rational person can accept that a “cosmic soup” could lead to (even after billions of years and many billions of transformations, chemical reactions, developments etc …) such an awareness, such a reason and so developed a mental structure?
In conclusion, I would add that the recognition of God is a feeling buried deep in the conscience of every human being. However, many people force their intellect to “stifle” the innate feeling. Only in extreme situations (like when dying for example) that sometimes to appear. How many times have we heard that people, when they were confronted with death, did call for help or protection of God, while those same people have often spent their lives denying the very presence of God whatsoever.
Jenna Smith: I have read the Quran and Hadith and studied for a year and a half under an Imam. He couldn’t answer my questions any better than you do.

And I am not reading that. I do not have the time for you to throw huge texts at me.

Jenna Smith: You have to respect my time more than that.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: You persist, and you do not want to change ur mind as I do! then remain in peace: p

Jenna Smith: The fact remains that YOU cannot prove your god exists so you have to rely on excuses and apologetics and give reasons why, why, why….when all you really have to do is realize it’s a lie and not necessary!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: All I can do is to pray god to help you to know exactely the right way !


Kaoutar Zahraoui: If you were convinced you of your religion was not going to look for other religions 😉

Jenna Smith: Your god has 24 hours to prove to me he exists.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Go study your religion first :p
My god is greater than playing this game with you
the future will prove you 😉 and it will be toooo late

Jenna Smith: I was raised a Christian…..and when I realized it was a lie, I went looking for another. That was when I did my year of Islam and realized because I HAD studied Christianity that it was exactly the same.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Good day Jenna and nice to talk with you

Jenna Smith: Dear, I’ve spent 17 years studying comparative theology….I know more about religion….including YOURS…..than you do.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I congratulate you! may be that you know any study but unfortunately you have no feelings to feel the true path!

Jenna Smith: But don’t be a coward…….ask your god to SHOW ME. Have him PROVE himself to me……he’s got 24 hours. I think that would be easy for the creator of the universe……
There is no “true path”.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Well He has no time for you!

Jenna Smith: So god has time constraints???
The most powerful being in the universe who can be everywhere at once can’t take 2 seconds to show me he is real????

Kaoutar Zahraoui: he created us, he gave evidence for any moral and for all! and he left us the choice! if you want to believe it’s good if you’re free! my god does not force anyone to do something!

Jenna Smith: That does not make sense!
If god gave humans morals, why do people without gods behave morally?
Why do animals behave morally?
You’re not making sense.
And I didn’t say have your god FORCE me to do anything….just SHOW ME.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I would add that the recognition of God is a feeling buried deep in the conscience of every human being. However, many people force their intellect to “stifle” the innate feeling. Only in extreme situations (like when dying for example) that sometimes to appear. How many times have we heard that people, when they were confronted with death, did call for help or protection of God, while those same people have often spent their lives denying the very presence of God whatsoever 😉

Jenna Smith: Do you not see how you are contradicting yourself and making god impossible to exist?
The recognition of god is merely a learned response due to branwashing.
So god won’t help….he just hinders???
LOL…..your arguments are AGAINST god!!!!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: He helps those who believe in him!

Jenna Smith: That doesn’t make sense either.
If he wants me to believe, he has to show me……I didn’t ask him to help me. JUST SHOW HIMSELF.
BTW, you’re making the EXACT SAME EXCUSES that Christians make for god!!!!
It’s as if you’re using a script!
It’s really simple, Kaoutar…..if your god is real and he wants me to believe in him…..all he has to do is SHOW HIMSELF to me. VERY SIMPLE. One tiny thing…….
He has 24 hours.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: if allah will appear! and show Himself as u say! it will not be sacred (ma3adallah) it will be like any ordinary human! if you wanna see allah, will see youself in mirroire you see the creature of Allah around you, then you will see!
Why you tell me that ? i wont order Allah to show himself for you !!! A3OUDOU BILLAH!
it between you and HIM sub7anaah !
Ask him to do whatever to prove that he existe !
cuz you know why , you see things as you want not as they exist
if you want to understand you must be neutral;)
Go learn how to be neutral then came to understand !
you you are stubborn! I will not break my head with you!
May god helps you to know the truth O:)
Salamu 3alaykum 🙂

Kaoutar Zahraoui: if you do not have time for me and my hugs texts! check this video out! it lasts only 10 minutes 🙂

islam: Does God Exist !
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Kaoutar Zahraoui: I add one thing more about children who die for no reason! I’ll tell u something, in this life in general, it’s all about destiny : there is always a reason and a moral for everything that happens to us!
Sometimes it happens something bad and we become sad and we say cursed life!!!l! but over time we realize that it was for our good ! Allah loves us and he still wants good for us!
Maybe that those children would live a hard life !! that’s why Allah took them! for not to souffer in life, in their future life ! the future that only Him knows it! 😉

Jenna Smith: Look, YOU cannot prove your god exists. ONLY HE CAN.
I am not moved or impressed by your brainwashed ramblings because not only do they not make any sense AT ALL, they are the EXACT SAME THINGS Christians say!!! You cannot both be right……but you can both be wrong.
So, your god has to show himself to ME. I don’t care about your proof.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Jenna , check this out and you’ll understand why christiens change their religion in Islam! and why they no longer believe in God = Jesus!
This proves that we’re not the same!
And by the way, you’ll find the answer to all your questions! and you’ll know why god can not be seen and appeared! 😉
If you really wanna know the truth !
That’s all i can tell you 🙂
Top 10 Reasons Why Jesus is not God – Joshua Evans – TheDeenShow
In this video Joshual Evans -a former Youth Minister- shares 10 reasons why Jesus can not be God. Get your note book put ready for this one, we’ll be giving ….

Jenna Smith: No, Kaoutar, that won’t explain anything. I don’t think Christianity is right either. The ONLY proof would be if god showed himself to me.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Okeei then wait for it 🙂 ! i told ua that YOU DONT WANT TO UNDERSTAND AS YOU PERSIST ! 😉
When we want to understand something, we try to have proof, we do not require it !

Jenna Smith: No, that’s not how it should work…..if god is THE MOST POWERFUL FORCE IN THE UNIVERSE….then it should be nothing for him to show me VERY EASILY. It should be so obvious that there is no mistaking it. You’re over there making excuses as to why the most powerful being in the universe can’t do something……and you don’t realize that JUST DOING THAT proves he does not exist!

Jenna Smith: BTW, I used to believe in the god of Abraham…..then I looked for real proof to back up my belief. When I found NO EVIDENCE AT ALL, I could not, as an honest person, continue to believe something just because it made me comfortable.
I value the truth too much.
So…..24 hours from this morning…..we can call it 9 am…..and god has to give me proof.
Otherwise, he is just a figment of your imagination.
I am not dishonest enough to call “faith” a virtue.

And there it ended. Or so I thought.

Yesterday–July, 19, 2012, Miss Muslim decided to send me another proselytizing Islamic video:

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Hey Jenna 🙂 hope u’re doing well ! i just wanna share with ua this beautiful video! don’t worry it’s in english! you wont lose anything if ua watch it ! it’s from an american men ! 🙂
مسيحي ينهار من البكاء بعد إجابة يوسف إستس على سؤاله !!.
شبكة المُخَلِّص الإخبارية قناة المُخَلِّص

Jenna Smith: What is it?
Honey, I am not watching a 33 minute video unless I know why you want me to watch it.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: This is a peace conference! From Yusuf Estes!! this men is a live example for the greatness of Islam may Allah reward him Jannah 🙂
Hope ua will watch it!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I’m sure ua will feel soooooo well after 🙂 even if ua dont believe in islam 🙂

Jenna Smith: No. I’m not interested in proselytizing.
I don’t have time to waste on conversion vids.

Kaoutar ZahraouiAs ua like 🙂

Jenna Smith: Please don’t do this sort of thing again. I consider this to be extremely disrepectful and rude. I do not send you private messages trying to convert you and I would appreciate the same consideration.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: i wasnt trying to convert you, i just saw it and i thought of you! i thought it will please ua ! because it contains all the answers to your questions that’s it! sorry anyway if i have disturbedua 🙂

Jenna Smith: You were trying to convert me. I didn’t ask any questions that I didn’t already have answers for.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: But you dnot know your God! and that’s a big question! This is the basis for any belief !

Jenna Smith: I don’t have a god. God is a myth.
YOU think I have a question. I don’t. YOU just want to convince me to stop attacking your religion. I won’t do that.
Kaoutar Zahraoui: You dont have a God :O That’s awful :/ and who created you? yourself ? then why you get sick? why you have problems? why you’re not perfect?

look at around you! all this creature requires the presence of a great creator! which should not be a human! either a myth ! .. 😉

Kaoutar Zahraoui: and attack my religion as you want I’m tolerable!
I just wanna help ua to know the right way to the paradise 🙂

Jenna Smith: Little girl, now you’re being rude. I didn’t ASK for your help and for you to assume I want or need your mythology to be happy is arrogant and disrespectful. YOU DO NOT KNOW ME. This entire exchange started because YOU didn’t like something I said about Islam and you demanded I remove some comments.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: for you to live quietly ,cuz ua know if you were a religious person you would not attack other religions! you would be satisfied and happy with your religion 🙂

Jenna Smith: Religion is not the key to happiness. It’s the road to ruin.
Now stop trying to convince me of the rightness of your faith. I am not harassing you and I don’t appreciate you harassing me.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: okey that’s why you’re ruined! and you have nothing to do but comment post of their people and try to change them mind and disturb them! Rihab is my SISTER if you dont know it and i was trying to defend thats all!
I am free to express myself as I want if you do not agree you can not answer me or block me
Too easy 🙂

Jenna Smith: I didn’t attack Rihab. I attacked ISLAM. There was no need to defend her or demand I remove any comments. And you need to stop being so insulting to ME…..I have not said ONE THING about you, but you’re calling me names (ruined, unhappy, sad) and being rude for no reason. I was not bothering you. What is wrong with you that you have to harass a stranger for no reason?

Kaoutar Zahraoui: im NOT rude! maybe it’s ua who see me like that!
Well i’m sorry anyway; last thing i want ua to know, ua said that ua didnt attack Rihab but ISLAM ! well honney, WE as a MUSULMAN ! our religion is something
françaisanglaisarabe sacred to us! you can kill my father or my mother and do NOT speak ill of my religion, my prophet , my ALLAH !!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: cause it was really rude of you to touch our belief! you had to say bad about our God, and you know it’s worse! ua see !

Jenna Smith: You ARE rude. You are harassing a stranger for NO REASON.
And I will say anything I want about your religion. The fact that you’d rather see your family dead than have someone say something TRUE about Islam shows what a horrible religion it is.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Hahahahahahahaha you’re weird! you understand just what you want to understand !!

Okeey ! YOU will say anithing you want .. and I will keep defend ! like that we’re equal 😀

Jenna Smith: You can address me in public. Not privately.
If I post on a comment on a page, you’re free to say anythig you want there. NOT HERE

Kaoutar Zahraoui: i said my father and mother died just to make ua UNDERSTAND an KNOW how much we can be clooose to our religion 😉

Jenna Smith: Be honest and keep it out in the open.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: you’re right ! next time i’ll 🙂

Jenna Smith: No, you meant that you would rather see your family dead than have me speak the truth about Islam
You shouldn’t have addressed me privately today. It was rude and pushy.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: No honney ! that’s what you’ve understood 😉
I dont find myself rude ! 🙂

Jenna Smith: Post it publicly and if I happen to comment, then you can reply. Otherwise, be a decent person and don’t harass me privately.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: if you do i told ua what to do 😉

Jenna Smith: Again, you’re TELLING me….as if I have to follow your orders. You’re really rude.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: im adressing to you not the public 😉

Jenna Smith: I don’t want you to address me privately anymore.
Have a lovely day and feel free to post on my wall.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Thank you 🙂

Jenna Smith: Add me if you wish, but be warned. I do not care about any religion and I attack them ALL. You might get your feelings hurt.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: By the way, if i’m again rude! you AGAIN prouve that uar a closed minded you understand just what you want to understand
Okeey! i will think about it 😀
Bay baay !

Jenna Smith: I studied Islam. I ahve also studied many other religions. What other religions have you spent years studying? I think that demonstrates just exactly how open my mind actually is. You just think I’m closed-minded because I think your religion is wrong. Christians say the same thing. It’s like there’s a “Defend Your Religion With These Easy Phrases” book you all have.

Jenna Smith: Now, you can add me or not. Your choice. I’m not going to answer you again privately.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: oooh please stop giving me your cv !!
Yes , i have study a looooooooooot about ISLAM and every time it prove me that i’m right just the way I AM !!!
But you know at least, people have a religion to believe in and defend! even if they’re wrong! but they believe !! the prob is when you dont believe in ANYTHING !!! that’s awful and sooo sad 😦 😦 !

And guess what! I thought, and I will not add you, I will add the people who will give me one more reason to keep this belief, not someone who will not serve me! it will just upset me 🙂

I promise that I will not bother you again! but if you’ll change your mind and you want me to help you can add me, i’ll do it with pleasure 🙂

One last thing, you have not studied the knowledge and all that has no relation with age? so stop calling me Little girl heein 😉

Jenna Smith: Yes, my dear, you’re a little girl. You’re also a bit of a coward. If your faith was SO strong and SO right, a few little questions wouldn’t shake it. So, you go right ahead and run and hide. I wouldn’t want to upset your perfect little fantasy. However, if you ever get ready for reality, I’ll help you realize what I know…..ALL religions are just stories made up to control the masses and gain money and power and god is just a myth.
Kaoutar Zahraoui: No thank you! keep your knowledge and your studies for yourself, it will serve you 😉 I’m glad with what I am! I am totally satisfied (thank you god ♥ )!

Ahh by the way, you didnt say that you’re not going to answer me again ??? What you do it then ??
Keep your promess BIG GIRL 😀 !

Jenna Smith: You said you weren’t going to harass me. I figured one lie deserved another.
Ignorance is bliss. Enjoy your bliss.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Hahahahaha noo sweety! i didn’t say it ! i said that IM FREE ! I CAN EXPLAIN AS I WANT ! 😉

Jenna Smith: Yes, you did. You said you never wanted to harass anyone.
Messaging me out of the blue after weeks of not communicating IS harassment. Look, child, if you wish to debate, don’t be a coward. Add me and do it publicly. Otherwise, you’re just a weak, little girl who doesn’t have the conviction of her faith. You say you really believe in Islam and it’s true, so put your actions behind your words. STAND UP FOR IT PUBLICLY. Don’t be so scared. Surely if it’s right, it can stand the questions.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: No I did not say! and whatever .. It’s my turn then please stop bothering me! it was my last msg and i wish you wont answer again 🙂

Jenna Smith: Now, LITTLE GIRL…..and I call you that because not only am I old enough to be your mother, you have the unbridled arrogance of youth. Add me or leave me alone.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: Allah isme7 lek u ihdik u khlas hedshi li n9der nzidek! 🙂

Jenna Smith: Coward. Write it in English.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I said may god forget ua and help ua to know the right way! 🙂

Jenna Smith: What a rude thing to say!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I’ve prayed for ua! that’s not a bad thing don’t worry 😉 ! and by the way, uar not obligated to answer or to say something! cuz for us, in our religion when we pray for ua ! you’ve just to say amen! to get the good things that’s it 🙂 !

Jenna Smith: So you sat there and did nothing but hope I would believe your fairytale.
You’re so rude! It’s pathetic the way you religious people act toward the rest of us! You demand respect, but refuse to give it.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: No, i didn’t pray that you believe in my religion! I prayed in general 😉 ! Gosh how ua can make things sens out !!!!!! ua never want to understand others :/

Jenna Smith: Child, all prayer is a waste of time. How about you use those hands for work instead of wasting time.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I work harder than you think my dear! I am active dont worry! 🙂

Jenna Smith: BTW, this entire conversation is going in my blog……and being linked to my FB page.
If you’ve got time to pray, you don’t have nearly enough to do.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: I’ve time for both !

Jenna Smith: No, you waste time talking to yourself and wishing others would believe the same foolishness.

Kaoutar Zahraoui: 😀 (Her penchant for smilies is annoying.)

Jenna Smith: And I’m still blogging this……
and i am not changing the names……you’re about to be facebook famous
Remember when you told me to “GO TO HELL”? That was SO Muslim of you!

Kaoutar Zahraoui: You was talking with a bad way !!! you was attacking ma sister , you was attacking me !! that’s why i have say it !!
and dont worry im not scared about anything ! stop telling me that you posting that on your wall because i TOTALY dont care!!!! i am so convinced about what i say!

Jenna Smith: I did NOT attack you or your sister. I asked QUESTIONS about your religion. You then demanded I remove them and then tried to damn me to hell. Go back….read them again. I NEVER attacked either of you. I ONLY asked a few simple questions.

And there it ended. For now at least!


All I Have To Do Is Stay White and Die.

I am heartily sick of strange men who don’t know me from the chick at the dry cleaners telling me what I HAVE to do or what I SHOULD do.

Boys, all I HAVE to do is stay white and die.

I don’t have to give you a chance. I don’t have to listen to your reasons. I don’t have to give you my attention or time. I don’t have to respect your point of view. In fact, I don’t have to do one damn thing…..except stay white and die.

Men have a most annoying habit of trying to make pronouncements on my life and well-being without knowing thing one about me. I’ve had men who didn’t even know my name telling me I NEED a man. I NEED a child. I NEED to get married.

Guys, y’all are all full of shit. Bags and buckets of steaming, reeking, vile shit.  

All this telling me what I “need” is a thinly veiled attempt at telling me what YOU WANT. YOU want a woman. YOU want a child. YOU want to get married. And you direct these desires toward me as if I have some social or biological obligation to fullfil your wish list. Y’all have lost your collective minds. In psychological circles, telling me I need what you desire is called ‘projection’. Look it up sometime.

Men really seem to hate it when a woman can live without a man. And I mean REALLY hate it. When I calmly state that I don’t need a man, have no desire for a child and don’t feel a need to get married, they either ask what’s wrong with me or, most usually, proceed to tell me what’s wrong with me. Seriously, nothing is wrong with me. I promise…..I’m fine. But NOOOOO, they just tell me what they think (read: launch into insults) anydamnway.

–You just need to find the right man.

–You’re just bitter.

–Everyone needs at least one child.

–It’s not good for you to be alone.

–You need a man to help you.

–You must be a lesbian.

–You just hate men.

For the record, I am not a bitter, angry, man-hating lesbian. In fact, there have been dozens of men that I have loved and still do love. Just because I haven’t felt the need to move one into my house and wash his underwear doesn’t make me a homosexual nutcase with anger issues. What I hate and what makes me angry is random strangers who don’t know jack shit about me telling me what I should or should not do!

What. The. Fuck.

Women seldom do this and when they do it’s usually some brainwashed Jesus-freak who’s trying to reconvert me. They stop when I tell them I’m Pagan and I don’t need their Zombie worshipping cannibal/death cult. Women are nice like that.

Men, on the other hand, will not shut the fuck up about whatever they have their teeth into and try to browbeat or argue me into their way of thinking. (Like they have a chance at that!)  I usually end up telling them off in eloquent and vivid terms that leaves them either confused or pissed off. And while that’s satisfying and oh, so enjoyable, it’s also time-consuming and I have shit to do.  The fact that I have to tell them off speaks DIRECTLY to the disrespect most men shovel at women as standard operating procedure.

Gentlemen, and I use that term to loosely, get the fuck off my ass with your wants, needs and desires. Get over the fact that I don’t feel like I have to have a man to feel fulfilled or happy. Get over my independence and my childless state. In short, Get over me. I don’t need you and I never will. Oh, sure, I might WANT a man from time to time, but I can always borrow one and put him back when I’m done. Don’t tell me what I SHOULD do or how I HAVE to behave because I’m not listening.

And remember, boys, all I have to do is stay white and die.


Damn the Patriarchy!

Yeah, that’s right. I said it. Damn the patriarchy.

And while I’m at it, let me add a few more things to that list.

–Damn those high school and college athletes who grope, grab, fondle, molest, harass, rape and slut-shame and get away with it because they are good at some ridiculous sport.

–Damn the preachers, teachers, parents, mentors and leaders who make excuses like “boys will be boys” and “it was just horseplay” when those self same athletes do their heinous acts.

–Damn the women who take the side of men and call other women slut, whore, cunt, bitch, and skank when women are attacked.

–Damn those who blame victims for rape.

–Damn the ones who put the onus of men’s behavior on women.

–Damn any ideology that sees women as inferior.

–Damn burkas, veils, pantyhose, corsets, high heels, hijabs and anything else women have to wear to please or placate men.

–Damn all those men and women who think it’s A-OK to call women bitches and whores.

–Damn all those companies and corporations who make money off the insecurities of women.

–Damn the professional clubs and organizations that still discriminate on the basis of gender.

–Damn the professions that still pay men more than women.

You know what…….DAMN IT ALL! It’s not right. It’s not fair. It’s not good.

From now on, I refuse to tow the mark. I’m not going to follow a rule, observe a tradition or honor anydamnthing that refuses to respect me and my gender. We are women. Half the population of the planet and yet we still only own 1% of the world’s property. We are still bartered, sold, traded and married off against our will. We are still killed, maimed and mutilated in the name of religion or tradition or honor. We are demeaned, degraded, defiled and dismissed by individuals, communities, states and I for one am heartily sick of it.

There’s a revolution coming. Women are rising up. Be warned. We are going to turn this rock on its ear, take no prisoners and yield no quarter.

Damn the patriarchy………..time for a little ol’ fashioned karma to come ’round.


I am not your fucking problem.


This is to all the men I’ve dated or fucked, the men I’ve considered and dismissed, and the men who I never considered although they expressed interest:

I am not your fucking problem.

I am not the reason your girlfriend stabbed you. I am not the reason your wife is divorcing you. I am not the reason you can’t get laid. I am not the reason you don’t have sex. I am not YOUR problem. Your problem is something you have to discover and deal with. Don’t try dropping it in my lap after a year and expect me to have the least bit of sympathy. You were a dick to me and you’re probably a dick to other women. YOUR behavior and YOUR thoughts are why YOUR life is as it is. Don’t blame me.

Also, you don’t need to worry about me. I’m a big girl and I’ve been taking care of myself for a long time. If I need help, I know where to get it…..and trust me, big boy, it ain’t from some man I haven’t thought about in 14 months. I don’t need your advice, affection, admiration, opinion, expertise, money, shoulder to cry on or penis. I don’t need to know you’ve been thinking about me. In fact, if you and your ilk would stop thinking about me it would suit me just fine.

Yes, I am single. Big, fat, hairy deal. This doesn’t imply that I am desperate, man-hungry, insane, diseased, disgruntled or otherwise unsavory. It means I don’t have a man in my life. PERIOD. There is nothing to imply from the situation. My single state doesn’t give you carte blanche to assume I’m sexually frustrated, desperate for male attention or in need of a “good man”. It merely means I’m unattached. It doesn’t imply that I need a man or even want one. And even if I do want a man, I’m not going to consider those I’ve already weeded out of my personal dating pool. You weren’t fit for consumption then and you aren’t now.

The reason I’m saying all this is because every year, about this time, all the losers, posers and annoying assholes I’ve removed from my life come flooding back to me in hopes of redemption, forgiveness, another chance, or just to bitch about shit that ended long ago. Guys, listen, when I am done……I AM DONE. I do not think of you. I do not keep your contact info. I don’t beat myself up over who was right or wrong. I do not wish you ill or wish you well. I simply do not care one way or another. I am indifferent.

If I had wanted to rehash old arguments, be annoyed by familiar fucktards, or be offended and insulted by someone I have a history with, I’d go to a family dinner. Fortunately for me, I’m not blood-related to the lot of you and can, without shame or repercussion, shut you out of my life. I don’t need the irritation.

And how sad, pathetic, desperate and ridiculous are y’all for coming back to a woman who got rid of you so completely and in no uncertain terms? Seriously, when I ditch someone, I DITCH them. There are no tepid excuses nor do I mouth platitudes. I am straightforward and clear. I tell you just exactly why I am not interested and that I will no longer communicate with you. Why must you return to me like some mangy stray looking for a scratch behind the ears? If I didn’t want you last year, I haven’t changed my mind. I don’t believe in second chances. I don’t ask for them and I don’t give them. They never work out, in my experience, and quite frankly, I could better waste my time surfing the net or masturbating.

So, if I have dismissed you from my life, just stay out. Don’t consider it a failure. See it as clearing the way for the right woman to come into your life. You don’t have to keep me on your roster or in your phone. You don’t need to check on me from time to time. You can use the time you might waste communicating with me doing something constructive… improving your vocabulary or feeding the homeless. And remember, when I am through with someone, I am through. I don’t wish you ill, I don’t hope you die, I don’t think about you at all. Return the favor. I’d appreciate it.


Bathroom Photography–

Please! No more bathroom photography!

 There’s a phenomenon I’ve noticed on the internet…….Self-portraits of people taken in the bathroom mirror. This simply MUST stop. Backgrounds range from a putrid pink tile bathroom with gold tone, sea-motif fixtures to turds in the unflushed toilet to a cheeky public restroom with retro black and white tile complete with urinals.

 Now I know that folks want to have pics of themselves online, but don’t these people have any friends? I have lots and lots of pics and never once have I had to resort to a self-portrait on a cell phone in a badly lit bathroom. Every pic I’ve had taken was either taken by another or, at worst, at arm’s length by myself.

 People, we do NOT want to see your bathrooms. We don’t want to see your unflushed toilets, your piles of laundry, your drying undies, your grimy mirror smudges, or your toothbrush. Do the rest of the world a favor…….have someone take a fucking pic for you! As much time and effort as goes into potty portraits, you can pause while busily hanging out, killing time or chillin’ to have someone take a few quick shots. Hell, they might even do a good job! Can’t be any worse than the restroom rendition.

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